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Frank Answers About Male Shirtlessness

Note: This Q & A was originally one of my brief answers in “Frank Answers Briefly About Male Body Issues.” But the answer was a little longer than a brief response, so I removed it from that post, added a little more text and additional images, and made it this independent article. Spring is here. The days are getting warmer. Men’s shirts will be coming off with greater frequency. Let it be a sign of celebration that we are beginning to be immunized against COVID-19 with vaccinations.

So, a year ago, on May 31, 2020, this question was asked and answered:

As summer comes during this time in which we have been shut in due to COVID-19, I look forward to getting outside. I’ve already noticed this spring some men riding bikes and walking through parks shirtless. Maybe it’s an expression of freedom during this time of confinement. I’d like to join them. As I get older I find that I like being shirtless outdoors more than I did previously. Maybe it’s a reminder of my boyhood when I played shirtless outside during the summer. But I admit that I’m a bit modest about baring my aging body in public, except on the beach or at a pool. Also, my wife makes comments about seeing older men “spoiling the landscape,” as she says, by showing their bare bulging bellies. That’s not very encouraging. She thinks male shirtlessness should be limited to boys. Young men who work out would be okay too. Why do men go shirtless in public anyway? Where do you think it’s appropriate? Where is it inappropriate? Thanks for your reflections on this.

Frank answers: Yes, as summer comes, especially during the pandemic, we need to get outside, remove those shirts, feel the warmth of the sun and the coolness of the breeze on our skin. I’m happy to answer this question, because as a 70-something man I enjoy being outdoors shirtless, riding my bike or walking through a park or natural area, soaking up that Vitamin D.

All ages need the sun.

Your question raises a general issue about male shirtlessness in public in an otherwise clothed society. Let’s grant at the outset that many women don’t appreciate seeing men going around shirtless, except maybe on the beach or at the pool, where it’s definitely appropriate. And let’s also recognize that there are many men who don’t want to be shirtless in public, sometimes not even on the beach or at a pool. You hear negative comments from your wife and you have your own sense of modesty about male shirtlessness in public. It might be worth exploring where this sense of excessive modesty comes from. It can come from your family upbringing or just from a sense of dissatisfaction with your body (perhaps in comparison with other bodies). But norms of modesty vs. nudity are also culturally ingrained and subject to social enforcement through laws.

Shirtless near water

Let’s take the assumption that men can be shirtless on the beach or in swimming pools. Actually, up through the 19th century men and boys usually swam naked. This is portrayed in “The Swimming Hole” (1884-85) by American painter Thomas Eakins. He took several photographs of young men swimming in a swimming hole in 1884 that served as studies for the painting. This is one of them.

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This is Eakins’ painting, “The Swimming Hole.”

Nude swimming was acceptable in rural America, but in urban society where people live in close proximity to one another they generally preferred to maintain the social boundaries that clothing provides. When urban beaches were developed in the late 19th century, men had to wear bathing “suits” that included tops and bottoms, This was to protect female modesty, not male modesty. Maybe women got used to the idea that they shouldn’t have to see naked male bodies in public.

Victorian era mens swimwear ca. 1880s. Only lowers legs and arms showing.

BY the 1920s more of the male body was exposed. But as late as the 1930s men could be arrested for public indecency by swimming shirtless on a public beach. Male nipples as well as female nipples had to be covered.

Mens swim wear in the 1920s

This changed quickly as men appeared shirtless on movie screens. By the 1940s it was common for men to swim shirtless on beaches and in public outdoor pools. Of course, in indoor pools in high schools, YMCAs, health clubs, etc. it was customary for boys and men to swim nude up through the 1960s. (See Frank Answers About Swimming Naked.) But after World War II men displayed more skin in their public outdoor swimming attire.

Hunks at the pool in the late 1960s. Interesting that in comparison with Bermuda-type bathing suits later on, before 1970 less lower abdomen and more legs were shown.

By the 1980s bikini’s were introduced for men as well as women. While these were worn in swim meets, they didn’t catch on for men in general in the U.S., although they were common in Europe and Latin America.

By 2000 it wasn’t uncommon for men to wear bikinis on a public beach. Let’s also recognize that public beaches had to be racially integrated, and were, beginning in the 1960s.

Marathons

A style of Bikinis called Speedos were introduced for men’s and boys’ swimming competitions. This got male swimmers as nude as possible while maintaining genital modesty (though barely if the boys got an erection). Less material in the swim wear meant less resistance in the water.

Not only swimmers, but runners too took off in speedos, cutting down wind resistance but also allowing the wind to evaporate sweat to cool the body as it was generating a lot of heat from the exertion of running. Running in Speedos became a sight to see in urban scenes. Some marathon runners adopted the speedo rather than standard running shorts because there is no flapping of the material on one’s legs. Resistance is greatly cut down.

Boston not only has its famous marathon. It has had an annual Santa Speedo Run for charity through the main shopping streets since 2000. The runners, both male and female, come from all over New England to bare more than their chests in a December run through town. The growing numbers of participants indicate that many men (and women) really want to be nude in public, and will bare most of themselves if they have companions doing it.

Boston Santa Speedo Run

There may still be some lingering attitudes from the Victorian predilection to “cover up” the body in public. Most men don’t appear shirtless in public venues (much less in speedos) other than at the beach or a pool. I wouldn’t attribute it only to male shyness, although there is that. But it’s also a matter of conforming to social norms. It’s a social norm that you can walk shirtless on the boardwalk by the beach, but not down Main Street. You can run in speedos along the beach, but doing so along a city street is pushing it. Not that being shirtless on Main Street, or even running in Speedos, is necessarily illegal; it’s just deemed inappropriate. That, however, may be changing (see below).

Shirtless Boys

I think your perception about a desire to return to your boyhood as you get older is correct. We tend to remember our earlier years more vividly as we age. When we retire from our jobs we’re not always thinking about the next thing on our agenda. Memories that have been stored away get more breathing space and begin to come to the surface. We senior men also notice our body’s aging and think back to when we were in the bloom of youth. Musculature is atrophying and the skin is wrinkling. Those of us of a certain age might remember summer days with our buddies and the crazy things we used to do. And, yes, we were usually shirtless:

Out riding our bike…

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…at summer camp.

Boys Scouts at summer camp

I don’t notice boys being shirtless outdoors to the extent that they were when I was a kid except on beaches and at pools. But given encouragement, or just permission, boys will be shirtless.

Playing basketball in the driveway or in the park.

In June, practicing for the 4th of July parade, or in late summer, practicing for fall football games, the boys in the high school marching band will go rehearse shirtless.

Boys will show up shirtless in the park…

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…and do some working out.

Health Benefit

There is actually a health benefit to exposing your skin to the sun for both men and women and for people of all ages. Direct exposure to the sun enables the body itself to produce vitamin D, which is important in strengthening the body’s immune system for fighting disease, as well as producing strong bones by allowing the intestines to absorb calcium. Older people especially need more vitamin D and should get more direct sunlight. Many retire to the sunbelt just for that reason. There’s been a tug-of-war between dermatologists who warn against getting skin cancer from too much exposure to the direct light of the sun and health experts who recommend at least a few minutes of exposure to the sun every day. (You can’t get too much vitamin D the natural way like you can with supplements.)

Many of us can’t spend our days at the beach or an outdoor pool. But men can remove their shirts and walk or run or ride a bike in the sun…

…or even mow their lawn, getting exercise along with their daily dose of vitamin D.

typical suburban job in the summer

Spotting Shirtless Men Around Town

Shirtless men can usually be seen everywhere in the summer months—walking, jogging, bike riding, cutting the grass—, although not, I would say, in large numbers. Shirtless men pop up at outdoor sporting events. The bleacher bum fans are notorious for baring their chests. It seems like a macho thing to do.

You can also watch or join a skins and shirts pick-up basketball game in city playgrounds.

Male shirtlessness is actually increasing in places where it’s not usually been seen. A search of the internet produced a New York Times article of July 31, 2013 that discussed how many men are, in fact, appearing shirtless on the streets and sidewalks of the New York City. (The article was written during a heatwave.) The Times article attributed this fad to movie actor Orlando Bloom, who had been seen pushing his child in a baby stroller or walking his dog while shirtless on the streets of New York. Was NYC becoming like LA?

Orlando Bloom out walking his dog on the sidewalks of New York.

See the article with photos of shirtless men uptown and downtown at: https://www.nytimes.com/2013/08/01/fashion/shirtless-goes-the-city.html.

University dude walking his dog

If your wife looks up, she’s likely to see shirtless men on their balconies in the summer.

Or taking in the sun in Central Park

Or hanging around after a run.

Or shedding a shirt because the day got warmer.

I have personally seen shirtless bikers and skateboarders on the streets of NYC when visiting there. Some may have been messengers in a hurry to deliver their package.

Shirtlessness has been a part of male work history. In social history, men who have engaged in hard labor on land and sea have usually worked shirtless. In ancient and traditional societies working men usually wore no more than a loin cloth. Even in the Bible, John 21:7 says that Simon Peter was out working in his boat when the risen Christ appeared on the shore. “When Simon Peter heard that it was the Lord, he put on some clothes, for he was naked, and jumped into the sea.” Admittedly, this was in warmer climates like the Mediterranean world or tropical places. But it’s also the case that men sweat a lot and moistened shirts become a drag and are uncomfortable.

Shirtless workmen are all around us, especially in the building trades—carpenters, bricklayers, roofers, etc.

Shirtless Women?

As to why men bare their chests in public, I was tempted to answer: because they can. And if they can, many will. This is something of a male privilege, and I’m sorry women can’t go topless if they want to. This prohibition in city ordinances has been challenged in some cities. In fact, in some cities like New York there actually is no law against it.

Helena Howard rides topless through Minneapolis to demonstrate for city approval of female toplessness.

The World Naked Bike Ride to demonstrate for less automobile carbon emissions gives women an opportunity to ride topless through major cities.

Chicago World Naked Bike Ride

Male Shirtless Freedom

It’s been argued that women’s breasts can be sexually arousing and therefore should be considered one of the “private parts” of the body that should be covered in public. Apparently, men’s chests aren’t considered sexually arousing (although some women would dispute that). But it simply feels good to bare one’s chest outdoors and feel the sun and wind on one’s skin. And we have the social and cultural freedom to do so. So, men and boys, take off those shirts!

I would say that exposing one’s body in public gives one a sense of freedom. By this I don’t mean free only from the constrictions caused by wearing shirts in some physical activities, but free to connect with nature itself outdoors (feeling the sun and wind on one’s naked body), freedom to express self-confidence in public (knowing that people are likely to look at you if you are showing skin), freedom to bond with other men (men more readily shed their shirts if other men do so), and freedom to show off one’s body in mixed company.

Who needs shirts?

Men can be shirtless just because they want to show off their body.

Maybe to impress the girls. (The male of the species always struts in front of females).

College students hanging out as the spring comes to the campus

In urban areas you might see buddies connecting body-to-body, unafraid of touch.

Or gay lovers kissing in the park.

Or shirtless young men romancing their girl friends on park benches.

Reminds me of romancing the woman who became my wife on a garden bench in St. Louis 50 years ago.

So where is it appropriate for men to be shirtless in public?

So where do I think it is appropriate for men to be shirtless in public? And where do I think it might it be inappropriate? Generally, I think anywhere outdoors is appropriate. Anywhere indoors is probably inappropriate. But common sense must prevail both outdoors and in. I think urban bike messengers can deliver their packets while riding shirtless, but should have a shirt to throw on before they enter an office building. You expect men to wear bathing suits on the beach and even on the boardwalks and around the marinas, but signs posted on shops and indoor restaurants even along the boardwalks and marinas say, “no shirt, no service.”

I think shirtlessness is appropriate in any physical activity, whether work or play. Indoor gyms and yoga studios might request shirts on, in which case you have to abide by the management’s policy. But I still think it’s appropriate to work out and practice yoga shirtless even though the management says otherwise. Some women don’t like sweaty men on the next treadmill or yoga mat. But if you sweat, you keep a towel handy. In any event, summer is coming and yogis can get outdoors to practice and no one will complain if they are shirtless.

It is certainly appropriate, in my view, for athletes, both youth and adults, to work out shirtless indoors or outdoors. Runners almost always run shirtless. Wearing a shirt would literally be a drag.

If you see some shirtless young guys in the park throwing a frisbee or a football, and your wife isn’t with you, maybe you could ask to join them and shed your shirt and shoes too. Or just enjoy watching them—while being shirtless in the park.

Hey, old sport, catch!

Body Shame

There’s been a lot of discussion in recent years about body shame.  It applies to men as well as to women. And there’s also been a lot of shaming of older men for being shirtless in public, which could be implied in the statement included in this question about “young men who work out might be okay.” Older men? Maybe not for your some women. Even so, some mature men keep themselves in good shape and ought to be able to show off their athletic bodies.

But if senior men want to exercise and get vitamin D the natural way and experience a sense of liberation, God bless them! Let them be examples of vitality to shy young men and boys. We should not be ashamed of our bodies, and fortunately there are plenty of places and situations in which we can demonstrate that confidence in our bodily selves, as Ed O’Neill is doing on his shirtless bike ride through LA. Where men can be shirtless, age should not be an issue. Shameless old men who bare skin in public could be an encouragement to younger men to shed their sense of modesty and concerns about body image.

Go Ed! Set an example for the shy young dudes.

Shirtless men are everywhere! Obviously, opportunities for shirtlessness are contingent on weather and appropriate venues, social rules and cultural expectations. Boys and men, take off those shirts!

Frank

P.S. On May 13, 2021 the Center for Disease Control lifted the COVID-19 mask recommendation for all outdoor and indoor activities for all persons who have been fully vaccinated. If you haven’t been jabbed, get your shots!

P.P.S. As the summer of 2021 ends, the number of unvaccinated Americans combined with the Delta variant of the coronavirus, is curbing our brief freedom from COVID mitigations as cases rise, hospital ICUs are filling up with COVID patients, and thousands are dying. You can still be outdoors without masks…and without shirts.

5 Comments

  1. Angel

    Interesting article Frank. Let me introduce myself. My name is Angel, from Mexico, I’m 22 y.o. and I think shirtlessness depends on each culture. Here in Mexico, we have a lot of warm months (March to November) and it’s common to see neighbors outside in the streets, talking to each other while we’re spending our time sitting in front of our houses shirtless. Also i enjoy being shirtless when I go to the park and practice calisthenics.

  2. Todd

    very very interesting article however reading through the article and seeing some of the pictures that you posted in your article I see no man with hair on their chest also I’m talkin men going without shirts on and public who are overweight I’d like to see more of that too

  3. Michael Quigley

    Dear Pastor Frank,
    I only just discovered your blog today! I am a 51 y/o man with body shame issues. I was medically retired from the Navy in 2019 after serving 30 years in the military. The reason I was made to retire was due to a heart condition that required open-heart surgery. I am very self-conscious about the huge pink fleshy scar down the center of my chest.
    Additionally, as an aging man in the time of COVID, I have packed on the pounds since my retirement and cannot seem to loose weight like I used to. In short, I really am self-conscious about being shirtless (let alone naked)… even in front of my husband! (I forgot to mention that I am gay).
    Finally, I find myself missing my youth and feel very jealous of all the beautiful and viral young men who go around shirtless. I want to be free like that again, but feel as if I would only draw unkind attention to myself.
    Thanks for your thoughtful posts and answers. I hope that as I keep reading, I learn to have a better view of myself.

    • Comment by post author

      Dear Michael,
      Thanks for sharing about yourself. You’re the kind of man I write for. FWIW, I had a colectomy for colon cancer and the scar goes from my navel down to my pelvis. You can see it in a photo I shared of myself in a shirtless warrior II yoga pose in Frank Answers About Whether Yoga is a Work of the Devil (scroll down to the bottom). And, yes, middle age men have expanded their bellies during COVID-19. See a Q & A in Frank Answers Briefly More About Male Body Issues. Thanks for reading my blog and all the best. – Frank

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